this is my number one priority for now. i left him for a reason, so you’d think i’d get over it, especially after 2 years. i guess still talking to him doesn’t help. maybe i need to start there.
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All your comments about your ex-husband and I can relate very well, however don’t be like me and still be hanging on to his crumbs after 14 years. I married the guy 2 times; the first time in 1983 and then again in 1989. (He married a 19 year old girl in 1994 and then divorced her in 1998) I have taken him back too many times to count and each time he leaves me more empty than the time beforew. We have 2 sons that are nearly grown and he spends holidays with us and then right after New Years he disappears until the next holiday or event. I’ve let him do it to me and there is no one to blame but myself…I’m educated, believe it or not, have a great job, own my own home and provide a nice life for the boys. I have just left no room for anyone else to love me because I couldn’t get beyond him and the way you sound reminds me a lot of myself over the last 23 years! I say change your phone number and move on. Erase him from your memory, else you’ll wind up like me 42 and alone because you tried to hang onto something that was never going to work.
i can’t say that i am 100% over him, and don’t know that i ever will be, however, i can say that i will not waste anymore time hoping that he will be anything other than what he is. i have wasted so much time, energy, and love on him, and i will never get any of that back, but i will not continue giving it to someone who can’t appreciate it, and will only take it for granted. at one point not too long ago, i thought that i wouldn’t be able to make it if i could never see or talk to him again, but i figured out that life does indeed go on, with or without him, and i only hope that as this life does goes on, that my feelings for him fade to nothingness.
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