My boyfriend told me either I lose weight or I lose him and I think he means it. I am 4, 60 ft and 180 lb and I always thought I was cute because I was soft and… But my boyfriend told me that I should do something because I put on weight fast. I never started a diet or a weight loss program. What should I do?
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i agree!
Lose him…
Then lose the weight for yourself (whilst making him insanely jealous!) You should be with someone who loves you for you, not for the number on the scales : )
Good luck either way
xx
complicated...
is he saying that for your own good? how much did you weigh when you first started seeing him and how long has it been?
If you were a lot thinner when you met, it’s probably safe to say he’s being a bit superficial, in which case- dump him, like the others say! But otherwise, he may just be concerned for your health, and maybe he liked you just a few pounds lighter..?


