The more I talk to people, the more I find out- I’m not the only one. In fact I’d say right around half of the people I share this secret with tell me a similar story about themselves. Why has this happened to so many people? Why don’t we do anything? A lot of times, I’d venture to say, most of the time- It’s friends or boyfriends that take advantage. Not strangers, like we fear. How does someone recover from such a violation of trust? How can you love having suffered this experience? Why do most of us sweep it under the rug, as if ignoring the experience means it never happened? So I don’t know what I can do. But I’m working on brainstorming PSAs or something.