Yes I could have spent more time with my son when he was younger but would it have been quality time? Kids can sense it when the time you spend with them is obligatory or unfocused. They want quality. Crazy kids.
Now that he’s an adult I’d like to hang out with him on a regular basis….but I forget…...he’s got a life and is establishing his identity and boundaries. I’m not going to be his first choice for socializing. Who said being a parent would be easy? Not me.