Hm.. On second thought, I will not kiss his grave. Not because of the vandalism-thing (I am a teenager, so I have no sence of decency anyway), but because of my OCD, which would go bananas if I got any closer than three feet from that bacteria-farm. I will however leave some flowers and maybe a note, written in my first language. (I don’t want anyone to understand, and the odds of someone from the same country visiting, and picking up MY note of all the notes are pretty slim. Also, I figure in Heaven, Oscar can understand swedish.)