I very politely told the one extracurricular club that I'm still in
14 months ago
that I’m taking a social hiatus. They don’t need to know why or that the hiatus is permanent. But I did offer that if they need me on the sidelines, such as running errands to pick up fundraising materials, I can do that. No parties or meetings or fundraisers though. I just do not have the energy or even the desire anymore to deal with people.
