not worry so much about my weight because my ex is who had me stressed over it, im not gonna worry about it anymore i will stil excercise but i wont let myself be stressed over having some weight on me. when i was with my ex i lost almost 40 lbs within 2 years and its cuz he made fun of me and so i ate less and excercised more but i didnt eat healthy and it made me feel so miserable that i had to watch my weight so much. now that im no longer with him and im with someone who loves me for me i feel better and happier. im now 135lbs and happy with it.