There is so much to consider when making a decision like this that affects the rest of your life. Nobody has any real idea on what makes a marriage work or not work. Key ideas pop up again and again like common life goals, common background, level of commitment, acceptance of love as a decision and not only a feeling, and of course the all famous communication. What I share with my boyfriend is a very special bond and of that I have no doubt. I can not say however that I can’t picture my life without him, or that I have any passsionate fire inside me for me. I am comfortable with him and feel a great affection for him. He gets me, he knows how to treat me and I have no doubt of his love towards me. I know I have a good thing going. I enjoy almost everything we do together. There is still something that doesn’t feel 100% right though. I want to know if this is in my mind or if it’s my conscience sending a red flag.