So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little more than two and a half years. He broke up with me two days before my birthday this summer and then after about two to three months he really missed me and I missed him and we got back together. We’ve been back together for a month and a half and I feel like things are perhaps starting to fall apart again. You see he has this wicked bad habbit that i can’t stand and I told him before we got back together that I don’t want it what so ever in our relationship. He agreed and now atleast every week that we’ve been back together he’s done this habbit of his. I talk to him about it and everything, but most of the time I feel hopeless.
About three weeks ago we went to this party at a friends house and I figured I try it again cause maybe I’m making a big deal about nothing and it turns out that I regret having tried it again.
So yesturday I figured I’d surprise him before he had to go to this meeting he had and there he is doing this habbit again. I’m just so upset and crushed that he told me that he wouldn’t do it anymore and then he’s been doing it sooo much it’s not even funny. Because of this we’ve been fighting.
I feel like I’m not loved or cared for or anything because of this. I don’t understand who you can tell someone that you “love and care” for them so much that you won’t do something and then turn around and do it. I’m so angry right now I could scream. The reason it hurts so much is because I told him if he did it I wouldn’t go back out with him and now he’s doing it. I feel like such a push over or something, but I love him sooooo much that I don’t know what to do. I hope he sees that it’s not worth doing over losing me.