My fiance and I moved closer to his family , JUST BOUGHT OUR FIRST HOUSE!!!! Now we’re both Texans :) But the wedding is to take place in Northern California. Since I was raised there I assumed it would be a sinch to find a location…. Oh I was so naive! We were engaged Easter of 2008, also our three yr anniversary… and we still don’t have a wedding date or location. Am I the only lack luster Bride? Everyone is shocked that I’m not a total BRIDEZILLA. I already feel married and the only thing that will change after the wedding will be TTC a baby. Don’t get me wrong I desperately want to be married… I have status envy of friends who have been with their men for years less than my fiance and I who are Wives and its like I’ve been washing his stinky sox for almost 4 years thank you very mucc…. see envy! So why the lack luster Bride?