I’m done trying to be friends with someone who 1 – had 9 years to love me and didn’t and 2 – can’t be friends with me now even because he judges me for my actions while we are still not even together. Friends listen and don’t judge…and he is so angry right now, he can’t do that…so I am done. He hates me and it hurts him to be around me so…yeah the only time I will be there around him is as the kids mother.