I understand why many people would feel that way. A Bachelor Party is just that the Bachelor party for the boys! But we aren’t your standard couple. It wouldn’t kill me to see a stripper on him I know where his heart and head is at or else I wouldn’t be marrying him… and that is just the point… he wont really know it’s me until he get’s up on stage and hears my voice. After the seductive song and dance I’ll gracefully make my exit and he can go about his Last fling before the ring! The point of the song and dance is to show him and his boys I am ALL the women my man is gonna need after the wedding… In other words I wouldn’t do it if I weren’t POSITIVE it would go over smoothly. I in no way whatsoever plan on ruining his evening, just improving it. wink