rekindle a friendship i lost
Kristen 3 years ago

We met in December 1996, started dating in February 1997, were on again, off again until 1998, and then developed a really good friendship through 1999. December 20, 1999 we had an argument via email that ended with “maybe we should just take a break from each other for a bit”. That was 6 years ago.

Of all the friends that have come and gone in my life, she’s the only one I’ve ever really missed. She’s an awesome person (from what I remember), and I’d really like to be able to rekindle a friendship with her. Maybe it’ll work out, maybe it won’t. But I’m open to seeing where it leads.

We’re both married now, and we live an hour and a half apart, so it’s not like we’d see each other all that often, but I’d like to be able to pick up the phone and chat for a bit, or know that I can talk to her about anything and be able to trust her confidence and advice like I used to.

Maybe it’ll happen, maybe it won’t. I just need to work up the courage to call her up and see where she stands on us.



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good luck

6 years is a long time with somethings, but not with friendship. It’s never too late to contact someone. I have this saying ‘if you think something either do it or say it or never think it again’ yeah I know that is easier said than done, but instead of dwelling on it, do it.

Just think if she is thinking the same thing?! All this time you have wasted worrying, etc. And if she doesn’t want to talk then at least you would know that too and can move on. Seems like Christmas and New Year’s are great times to do things like this! ‘new starts’.

Good luck with this! I hope it works out, either way.

Great goal

It’s so difficult to manage that hurdle of initial contact. You just never know how it’s going to go, but time is a generous balm, even for deep wounds. You should certainly call this woman if you miss your friendship.

Well said


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