I was handicapped from the start. By the time I got back to the United States, they’d already started. Rewards for going to the potty-really expensive pullups that had princesses on them. Ones that not only could I not easily afford, but that I had to drive well out of my way to purchase.

Now, she’s halfway there. She’ll go to the potty-but only once she’s made a mess in her pull-up, and only in order to get a nice pull-up when she’s done. I’ve tried giving her diapers afterwards when she goes in the pull ups, but then she nixes the potty idea at all. What to do?