Kate L is feeling like these goals have been sitting here for quite a while

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I was browsing through Craigslist at the “strictly platonic” personals, just to see what was there. I think no one seems to understand what the word “platonic” means because most of them have something to do with some sort of sexual activity. I’m also suspicious of m4w platonic ads, because if you’re a man, why are you specifically looking for a woman to do platonic things with? Shouldn’t it not matter? Like why does a man need a swimming buddy who is a woman if sex is not part of the deal?

Anyway, a girl posted something about finding other girlfriends, and she seemed pretty like-minded, so I replied to see if she wants to try to get together. We’ll see what happens. Every time I’ve been “set up” with someone as a potential friend, it never seems to work out. On the other hand, I don’t seem to be having any success with developing friendships organically, so I might as well give this another try. There’s got to be some halfway cool girl out there whose roster of friends isn’t completely full already.



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I totally agree!

I sometimes peruse the craigslist ads and obviously no man is looking for a strictly platonic relationship specifically with a female (and vise versa). I also feel like I have occasionally found people who seem similar enough to me but always get too scared to email them. I don’t know why though, because it’s so hard to meet people I really click with in my normal day to day life, so why not take the chance?

How did it go, if you don’t mind my asking?

Kate L is feeling like these goals have been sitting here for quite a while

Oh gosh, sorry I never responded to this. After several weeks of not hearing back from this girl, I was beginning to realize that this whole thing is such a joke. Same old story, they sort of want to meet people but they sort of don’t. Now here’s the part where I become a jerk…She finally writes back, apologizes for it taking so long, and says, “Ok, here’s my MySpace profile for you to check out…I’d love to get together.” So I look at her profile….and she’s way too cool looking for me. How stupid is that?? I was too embarrassed to respond, because I was like, “Oh my gosh, I’m going to meet up with this girl and she’s going to think I’m a total nerd and I won’t know what to say to her.”

This is why I have a friend problem.

cl sucks!

I moved a while ago from Philly to Cali and tried many ways to meet nice people but everyone here is so inconsistent! I tried meeting at school, volunteering, CL but everywhere I went I found nothing. People come and disappear on you for months! or for ever. :(

I agree..somewhat

I saw that there were alot of those FWB type people online,but myself and a few other people I know have met a few people on craigslist.

I still have hope of meeting someone new online, but its hard to be platonic, when the expectation is that just because I’m a guy, I want to have sex with anything.

So…that pretty much narrows down the people who I can talk to..fortunately, though, theres a specific group of people who would probably want to be genuine friends, and not FWB, or 420 buddies, or whatever, but people that can just hang out and enjoy eachothers’ company.

I’ve been lucky to meet a few, and hopefully you..

On that note, if you’re looking for a platonic only chat buddy, hit me up..I’m think i’d have at least one thing in common to talk about.

If you see my Myspace page, you’ll see my huge list of likes..take your pick.

Kate L is feeling like these goals have been sitting here for quite a while

Hey Brian,

I do agree that just because you’re the opposite sex doesn’t necessarily mean it can’t be platonic. But as far as Craigslist goes, I guess I feel like if you’re looking for platonic friends, then there shouldn’t really be a reason why you’re specifically looking for someone of the opposite sex. Unless of course you’re like, “I want to learn Salsa and need a dance partner!”


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