Sooooo yuh, that guy i was with that i mentioned in my last entry… it didn’t work out. Basically we were together 3 weeks, during which time i saw him once a week at the most, he never bothered to contact me or pay any attention to me. By this point i was growing tired of his lack of interest and was planning to dump him but he beat me to it stating that “things could have worked if it wasn’t for his job and that he really wanted to put 100% into his job which meant he had no time for anything else and felt that we were more like friends than anything else” (funny how it didn’t feel like a friendship when he wanted sex eh!) ... to my suprise i wasn’t actually all that bothered when he dumped me, i was more offended for sheer vanity reasons (like there was something wrong with me physically or personality wise).

Anyway, i’d decided that i was going to give up on the dating scene and just concerntrate on being single for a while. That’s when things took an unexpected turn. The night i got dumped (halloween, ironically just a few days after i wrote that first entry lol) i decided i wasn’t going to sit at home moping and went out to a local alternative rock club with my mates, even though i knew the guy who had just dumped me was going to be there. Unfortunately the night turned out to be bloody awful for many reasons and as i sat there feeling sorry for myself a friend who i had fancied several months earlier came over to see if i was alright, he too had recently been dumped so we started chatting, suddenly his psycho ex came over and dragged him away accusing him of flirting with me… to cut a long story short she continued to make wild accusations for days after, he and i got talking over msn and decided to meet up to discuss the situation and hang out as his ex would never let him hang out with me whilst he was still with her (she was very controlling and thought that even though she had dumped him he would still run around after her). Sooooo we met up and we hit it off straight away, the spark between us was amazing and before we knew it we were an item.

I can safely say i’ve never felt this way about anyone before. I always thought relationships weren’t meant to be easy and that finding someone completely perfect for you only happened in movies, especially as any previous relationships i had tried after my 3 year ex were bloody awful i was seriously starting to think there was something wrong with me.

I guess to summarise loving like you’ve never been hurt is easy when you find the right partner, it could take days, weeks, months even years but don’t give up. You’ve gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince/princess.