DaisyFreebird is discovering more of myself by being still

live for myself
Untitled 11 months ago

Having a very covertly dysfunctional family, it’s difficult to do the things I want because everything has always been about their needs. So the past week I have been looking up with more hope in becoming aware that I am not responsible for my family’s unhappiness. Slowly changing my mind and environment for myself and what makes me happy. I have only one heart and life, and I need to live for myself.

Jan 19, 2009, 09:07AM PST | 2 cheers


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JustAsItIs

You have to want it

and I need to live for myself.

I am the second class citizen (or doormat) in my family. They know very well that I try my best to be a good person, to fulfill my duty. And they do their best to exploit me.

I think living for oneself is not something you “should” do, or “need to” do. You have to want it. Want it so much that your focus is on your own well-being, your own happiness. And be able to say NO to the people users, or if one prefers, say “Screw you.”

(Pardon the language.)

Feb 07, 2009, 02:32PM PST | Respond to this


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