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to my fellas: 11 months ago

i’m pretty traditional. i like for men to make the first move. so, do you typically do the asking out or wait for a woman to approach you?



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Enore is

I usually just wave a $20...

...and see what that’ll get me.

mrcreed Moderatio Est Figmentum

why

oh why do i not have a cheer for this?...lmao

eversosweetly all you need is love

lol, well that’s one of of something interesting happening.

Josh To thine own self be true.

For me...

I usually make that first move, but generally wait for subtle hints from my target that she is interested. If it is a complete stranger, even just enough eye contact or a smile can say enough to lure me in.

(lmao unc!)

mrcreed Moderatio Est Figmentum

josh is right on

women make the first move more than they think they do…eye contact or a smile is like a big green light…but really anything short of a restraining order can and sometimes is interpreted as a good sign for some guys(ive made _that_mistake)...lol
i dont see why i cant just write a note and have her friend give it to her after lunch…lol

eversosweetly all you need is love

with the boxes:

“do you like me?” check yes or no. :) oh the good ol’ days.

mrcreed Moderatio Est Figmentum

yeah

wouldnt things be so much easier that way? =)

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Maxime is back, for now!

I don't ask out directly.

I’m more the kind of guy who’ll discretly show his interest and put the other comfortable so that she will show her interest too, if she has any interest.

Then, the rest is not my thing, or her thing, it’s our thing. I never had to make the first step, neither the girls I was with. It was something we did together.

Legerd is the crooked tree and looking for a twisted treehugger

I used to...

But after getting gutted enough times, especially when I turn out to be so wrong about the girl’s interest in me, I’ve chosen to follow a more cautious approach.

Enore is

Nothing is worse, huh, Leg?

There you are in a nice fern club, it’s not too crowded, music is nice, your wine is perfect…and she has been smiling at you and making eye contact most of the evening.

Your testicles finally descend enough so you can saunter up to her, smile big, and just tell the truth…

God, you’re cute! May I buy you something to drink?

Only to be met by…

Go away, loser.

It sorta takes the wind out of things, huh?

Legerd is the crooked tree and looking for a twisted treehugger

Oh, it's worse than that...

I’ve asked out women I worked with, who I thought were attracted to me (flirted, teased, etc.) only to be flatly rejected. It gets a bit uncomfortable in the workplace for awhile after that.

Enore is

Yeah.

Next time try not laying your dick on their desk.

Legerd is the crooked tree and looking for a twisted treehugger

Hmmm...

Nope, I’m gonna stick with that.


 

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