So I think confidence is the issue of being shy! I think its true, just because the reason why I”m shy is because I think ppl are judging me, looking at me, I don’t fit to anyones standards of being a person, I feel that I”m ugly and not worth anyones time, I feel like I bring boredom to everyone around me, and the list goes on and a lot of thinking hard about being shy, it all comes down to CONFIDENCE!. So my question is how do I get confidence? Any one got answers please do tell and if it’s good or bad comment than comment away. Like I said you can actually learn and grow from a good and even more from a bad one! Sometimes a person doesn’t want to hear the truth cos it sucks and hurts so much, but sometimes its what we need to hear and try to move on or grow from that bad experience! So I’m ready anyone! Give it to me lol.
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wish i could help you, but i have the same problem :(
aww vaireddy
Okies I think I got a solution. I do have self confident issues and I can be self conscious, but you have to think everyone does have that too.
But I went to the Beyonce concert when she was here in Winnipeg and half way through it ..she came to the center stage and that’s when they turned on all the lights and that’s when I realized how many ppl were in the stadium :(. I was in shocked and really dont remember the rest of the concert after that and it was my first!!! concert. But I told my co-worker the next day and he told me its not like they paid to come and see you and its true. No one is watching me…which I totally thought after that…they went to see her. So I try to think that about everything. Another big one is restaurants, I think everyone is watching me eat.
So I dunno if that would help but try to think like that and I”m sure you can almost get out of your shyness….it will take some time and what not :)
