I am giving up. Talking to him today made me see that he is a businessman and I’m an artist, he is a workaholic and I’m a free spirit. I originally thought that our personalities would complement each other very well, he needs to relax more and I need grounding and I thought we could balance each other. But I was wrong, as although I can understand him (even if I don’t always agree), he can’t see where I am coming from at all. And in fact he made me feel a bit crap about myself.

I sent him a message quoting some of the nice things he said to me and asking him to clarify my confusion and tell me that he has in fact changed him mind since writing them. We agreed to be honest and I need to know for sure for closure.

Edit: his reply.

Re your note above, I am very confused.I have not changed my mind about anything, I love spending time with you, however like I said before I am only in the place for friends with anyone at the moment and I am enjoying doing different things with different people. I don’t want a relationship, i want to have fun and enjoy myself with people I feel comfortable with. I am afraid thats all I have to offer at the moment