60 days has worked for me really well in the past… but I have a new quandary. I’ve worked with him platonically for many years. About 8 months ago I started to fall for him. He’s very married. We have a great relationship at work but have recently started to communicate on days off… not about work; just chit-chat. We don’t really flirt – just talk. We obviously like each other, a lot, but never “go there.” I think about him ALL the time and can’t wait to see him at work. I’m crushed when I see he has left for the day without saying goodbye. It’s gotten incredibly distracting and I know it can’t go anywhere. How do I stop falling for him when I see him five says a week and we work so closely together? He is on my mind far too often and I can’t seem to stop wishing with everything I have that we could be together. But there is no avoiding him for 6 days let alone 60…