love my job, find a mate, lose weight and accept myself. Those are all the goals that I am struggling with. The ones that I believe, once achieved, will take me to the next level of my life. The thing is I’ve been struggling with these so much for so long that they really do define my life. I want to move on, badly. Any advice?
LOL! well, it seems like it! I can relate to a lot of what you’re saying here. I think it’s true that what you want defines you, but more importantly, it’s your attitude that says who you really are.
To me, it seems by acknowledging these wants and desires and then working on them, you are moving on….and moving closer to getting them.
It’s so true that acknowleding is the first step. I have been working on those things since I identified then and up until now I’ve accepted myself a lot, loved my job much more, lost a little weight but I have yet to find a boyfriend. Or actually I find boyfriends, I just don’t hold onto them for various reasons.
they tell me, when the right one comes along, he will hold on to YOU…
i’ve started “looking” more lately (i’m trying to go out on one date a month at least). so i guess that’s a start.
keep posting!
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read the 100 most influential novels of all time
bring Kurt Cobain back to life
cry on cue
write a cookbook
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back up my digital photos to CD/DVD
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QUIT SMOKING ONCE AND FOR ALL
Repent
Go to the Gathering of Nations PowWow
get more guns
move out of the US
make more friends
Read more books in a month than I buy
Visit the UK
be a mechanical engineer
get married
Become fluent in more than one language (including sign language)
do a backflip
go to japan
Learn to speak Gaelic
