Help my father recover from his stroke (read all 81 entries…)
Dad may need more heart surgery 8 months ago

Not sure whether he’ll want it or not but apparently the replacement valve that he was given in November 2007 may need replacing.

Well we think it does but given he now has mild heart failure and had a heart attack earlier this year we don’t know whether the surgeon will think it a good idea to put him under the knife again.

If it isn’t one thing then it’s another for him. He came home from his heart attack too soon and ended up being taken back a couple of weeks later for a further period of treatment as he wasn’t well at all – leg swelled up, blue lips, trouble breathing etc.

Hospitals should consider the whole patient not just the single symptom that caused them to be admitted in the first place.



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jansu just do it

Sorry to hear

your dad is so poorly. x

Axx

so

sorry to hear this…...
hugs and best wishes for you all.

sending warm wishes for your father's health...

... having been in your position (similar though not same) I must say i complete agree with you about hospitals/docs needing to treat the whole person vs. the one thing they came in with…

Sadly, I find that it does make a difference which hospital you go to… my family has had vastly different experiences depending on the hospital…

been there

Taking care of my parents is/was one of the hardest things I ever faced in my life. (My dad passed away and my mom is still here) But also one of the most rewarding.

The repeated hospital visits were traumatic, and made me feel powerless at times. I am hoping you have lots of support around you. I didn’t, so I used every public resource possible, counsellors, therapists, clergy. The experience completely changed my life and my beliefs. I am feeling for you.

I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that others have been through the same experiences.


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