dreammonsters is tired and tried out, but trying anyway.

get over my social phobia (read all 5 entries…)
Trying 9 months ago

I’ve been putting myself out there lately, which is absolutely terrifying.
Usually, I just freeze up and have trouble responding to things…or I’ll go polar opposite with nervous chatter that makes me sound like an idiot.

But, it’s Spring Break, and today’s the first day I’ve actually put aside to get stuff done and have me time.

I’ve been so uncomfortable all week, hah.

Hopefully, I’ll just get used to it, or something.
Because my comfort levels have not changed one bit.



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dreammonsters is tired and tried out, but trying anyway.

Thank you

Your encouragement really means so much to me. This made my entire day, because I really lack support from friends and family…they don’t understand my reluctance sometimes or my uncomfortable reactions.
So thank you for taking the time to give your support and to drop a kind word or two.

:)

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Donderjaeger Is going to research "family systems theory"...someday!! LOL

Just keep on keepin' on!

Hi there. Just keep on keepin’ on! I know this probably sounds insipid and idiotic, but it’s mostly question of “just doing it”. In this day and age, there must be plenty of information available on the Internet, so you may wish to seek out some guidance and support that way.

My angle is a little different. While I was PAINFULLY shy as a boy, and had no social skills at all. I always wanted to have human contact – just didn’t know how to go about it. Of course, there was no Internet to Google in then, so I was S.O.L.!!! lol

No offence, but…count your blessings and be glad you’re not a man in this situation. People will go out of their way to meet and support women. If you were a man with social phobia, people would mostly just leave you alone. That might sound easier to deal with, but a pretty girl will at least attract social opportunities. Better to use those to practise than to be the shrinking violet in the corner.

If it’s any hope, if I can do it, so can you! LOL Cheers!


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