Years ago, having decided I wanted to do it a couple of months earlier, I picked somebody at a party that was cute, clearly interested, had a great body, but that I clearly had no common interests with and wouldn’t want to talk to again.

I then explained to him that I’d never had a one night stand, that I didn’t even want to know his name, let alone see him again, and was he interested. We then found a quiet room. The whole scenario made me incredibly turned on, and I definitely don’t regret it.