I met a woman online. we went out on a date and hit it off, things were great. Got back to her place and it wasn’t long and we started kissing and making out, but it being a wednesday night and having to work the next day it was getting late and i had to get home. I told her i needed to go and she was all over me and said she wanted to have sex. i declined (gasp, i know) but it was for the better. she then told me she had made it easier for me by not wearing any underwear. anyway, needless to say it was difficult to get my ass out of her place before the temptation became too much.

So we started dating, it wasn’t long thereafter that we did finally get to third base.(or whichever base that is)

We recently broke up after 9 months, and when i asked her for a reason, she said that as much as she loves me she just isn’t sexually attracted to me. i was shocked, and wanted to know more to which she replied that initially there was no sexual attraction, but she just went along with it and hoped the sexual desire would manifest later in our relationship.

Is this normal, is this how some women operate? i would have thought that the desire and attraction should be one of the more important aspects in any relationship in order for it to work.