I once was very neutral when it came to others issues; I accepted them as they were and believed in only what I myself had heard/seen. I would never make a decision unless I knew that person and their life situations really well. ... Now I find myself becoming more judgemental, thinking that someone is doing something wrong when I don’t know their exact situation. I know that now b/c a certain someone thinks that way of me and so now I can see it from the other end of the spectrum.
You never know anyone’s real situation, so it’s best to just forget about it and eventually you’ll know who the good people are once you get to know them better.
No matter what error & although it hurts to invest so much hope in people for them to just use it against you anyway, maybe, just maybe, it’s a good thing b/c they just might take with them just enough kindness &/or truth to change themselves in the tiniest manner just by you giving your friendship.