I can totally understand how u feel, i have just come out of a bad friendship myself whwre the person had to be the centre of attention, always looking on the downside of life, a raging hypochondriac – the list is endless! having given her a second chance last year, she has has lately turned on me over a man yet again – a man who i have no romantic interest in altogether! she has accused me of all sorts, turned on me on holiday cos she wasnt getting enuf attention and now she was slagging me off to this guy she is with now. she has made me question me as a person lately even tho i have done everything to help her. i was getting cross and i was crying myself to sleep because her total self centredness was destoying me. I finally took the plunge and told her how i felt and suprise suprise she turned on me acccusing me of having problems so we have had a full scale row and i dont want to ever hear from her again. Is the best feeling ever to be thinking of myself again! trust me, u need to get rid of her and fast. a friend who makes u feel so bad is one u can do without cos they never change and dont want to change. u sound like a very good friend and will find a friend worthy of u , a 50-50 friendship! keep your chin up and let me know how u get on xxxxxxx