My wife left me and our kids for a 20 year old who still lives with his parents. I am 41 and my wife is 27 we have had our problems in our marriage like me taking my job out on her and her never speaking up for herself. She finally spoke up in January and told me that she couldn’t handle the way I treated her anymore. I said that I would change and we when into counciling together. She moved out and went to her mothers on May 3rd. We have continued to sleep together and spend time together. The last time we had sex was 6/9/09 the day before she was to go on vacation with her friend kim. Well on Friday me and the kids were going out to dinner and saw my wife and her new boyfriend at a local resturant. I went and satdown next to them and ask the question. Are you two sleeping together they both said no, but did say that they liked each other and would be together when my wife divorces me. I have thought for a while that something was going on with these two and friday proved it. The funny thing is that when I let him know that I was still sleeping with her she lied and said we hadn’t been sleeping together. So she is lying to both of us. It may sound stupind but I love her and want to keep my family together so I am willing to forgive this but I don’t know how to get her back. I would love any help that someone could give me.