1—Last night, my fiance was outside talking to a man that is renting the house next door. I think my fiance was trying to seal a good rent deal so that we could move in there, since we currently have the landlord from hell. Since he was outside I lied down on the couch and watched TV, he came in at around 9:20 pm. he was mad that I was falling asleep instead of waiting for him. Is that selfish?

2—My fiance recently got me two really cute outfits, because he wanted to see me in them. He asked me to not wear them to work until I wore them while going out with him on a date. One of them is definitely work appropriate and I wanted to wear it and thought it was rediculous that me wearing it would make him mad. He said I was selfish to want to wear the outfit he got me to work, where he wouldn’t be able to see it. Was that selfish?