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stop being taken advantage of (read all 3 entries…)
Boundaries and consequences. 5 months ago

These are the two things I need to work on establishing and following through on.

I guess I’m a wimp. I don’t like confrontation and I like other people to be happy. I need to focus on liking ME to be happy and satisfied, and letting other people sort out their own happiness without taking advantage of me. I though I was being giving and generous, and I was, but I didn’t realize how resentful I would become over time because I wasn’t getting anything back.

Jul 06, 06:43AM PDT


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makeamiraclehappen thinking about things I've done and about to do

I really know what you mean. I’ve felt like that for years but my mom said something to me that was very helpful ‘if you want to be giving and generous, do it because you really want it and not because you expect it back’. I hope this helps. (:

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