auroravirk is remebering the martyrs of Kargil...

get married to the love of my life
I'M GONNA HAVE TO ELOPE!!!!! 5 months ago

I’m from Punjab, he’s from Kerala and it matters cuz we’re in India… our backgrounds don’t match, our religions don’t match, our culture doesn’t match and our languages don’t match… we don’t care but the parents do…
He’s leaving the army n will be without a job in 6 months… i’m comleting my intership n will be home and caged if i don’t get out in 6 months….
My parents don’t know but when they do, all hell will break loose… his parents know and aren’t thrilled n sometimes don’t even think he’s serious….
i’m in one bg muddle but all i know is, he’s the one…
I’M GONNA HAVE TO ELOPE!!!

Jul 06, 09:45AM PDT | 2 cheers


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aynaray I had a friend of almond once. He flowered my maize of moment but good

aurora

please be careful. I hear so many horror stories about how unfair (and violent) families can be about this kind of thing…

Jul 08, 09:51AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

auroravirk is remebering the martyrs of Kargil...

don't worry!

Unfair, yes…. Violent… Probably not…
Sometimes i wonder if i should just give and go by what the parents plan out for me; an “arranged marriage thing” but i don’t think i can let go of something so beautiful…. i don’t want to…
But it’s a long way… maybe 2-3 yrs, once i’ve graduated from collge n found myself a decent job…
don’t worry! :)

Jul 12, 12:48AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Maya76

hi there

I know exactly what you mean,coming from a similar background and maybe you are right, but just maybe your parents will surprise you, like mine did, and just accept you decision. Its worth a try.But it is your decision so be clear in your head first if this is the right decision for you.All the best.Take care

Sep 23, 09:02AM PDT | Respond to this


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