Pajodama is home sweet home :)

TAKE CARE OF MY MOTHER UNTIL SHE NEEDS ME NO MORE (read all 18 entries…)
Update 5 months ago

Mom is doing good. She sometimes has her own ups and downs but I think it’s normal inside the aging process. I have to admit that I was developing an increasing lack of patient towards her situation. I tried to find reasons about my unquestionable behavior but no answer came up.

Today was my first CNA class. It was good and it deeply touched me. One of the topics that the instructor exposed was our future role as caregivers, with special emphasis on older people. While she was talking about what a loss of independence causes, I thought of mom. I felt anguish and wanted to cry (but I did not) I swallowed my tears and I decided to give her more (quality) time and be more patient. I still have time to show that I love her.

I took this picture of her this evening when I came back from my class. I spent more time talking to her and giving answers to all her repetitive questions. She was happy.

The picture below was taken for her anticipated birthday celebrated on Jun 8, her real one is in July 28.

She loves PiƱatas…and shares candies with her great grand kids.



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I think it’s so wonderful that you’re taking classes to become a CNA. Your experiences with your mother will make you a more compassionate and caring CNA. I have worked with some CNAs and RNs in the past who view it as just a job and don’t really treat their patients as human beings. I don’t get that. Why would you take a job that is all about helping other people, if you don’t care about the people you’re helping?

drasticfantastic is truly thankful this Thanksgiving

I'm touched!

Suppose we only truly appreiciate our parents as we grow older and they get even older :) lovely pic of your mum. Hope you cherish all the moments you still have left with your mum. {{Hugs}}


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