wren is mightier than grief.

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Paradigm shift 5 months ago

Mr. Wren & I watched this news story on Sunday, and it really got me thinking. The story is about a woman who line dries her clothing to save energy.

My initial reaction was to be all for the woman who is doing the hippie green thing. But here is the thing. She lives in a planned community, and she signed a contract when she bought her house agreeing to abide by certain standards. One of them was that she wouldn’t line dry her clothes. It surprised me, really, that someone would even think to include such a rider in a contract, but apparently there are a lot of people who feel that clothes lines are a real eyesore.

After living in this community a few years, she became more environmentally conscious, which I do think is a very good thing. At that point, she started line drying her clothes. This upset her neighbors. They don’t like looking at her wash as it dries on the line, and they feel it lowers their property values. She continues to do it despite their protests and has taken to hanging an American flag on her clothesline.

It’s funny. I really want to side with this woman. I agree with being environmentally conscious, I agree with a person’s right to do as they chose, and I disagree with hoity-toity giant SUV-driving people who care more about appearances and their property values than they do about the ozone layer. BUT I can’t get past the fact that this woman is being a really bad neighbor. She freely chose to live in a community with these restrictions, and as shallow as her neighbors may be, they have a right to expect that she abide by the rules.

I finally decided that what I believe is that the right thing for this woman to do is either move to another neighborhood, lobby to change the rules where she lives, or else find other ways to save energy. While she may be saving some energy by line drying her clothes, she is creating a lot conflict and behaving in a very passive aggressive manner.

Anyway, it was kind of strange to realize that this is how I felt. And it made for an interesting conversation with Mr. Wren.

That is all.



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DoubleN is working on surviving till year's end

I agree

100%. One of the things I love about you is the way you think things through.

wren is mightier than grief.

Gosh, thank you

That is a nice thing for you to say! :)

Yup

Good point, Wren. I like this post.

wren is mightier than grief.

why thank

you, DD. It made for and interesting discussion with Mr. Wren the other day.

I would just dry them indoors…especially if I had a garage then I could just hang them in there.

wren is mightier than grief.

I thought of that, too.

That’s another good option.

SimplyStacey They say to be careful what you wish for, but they don't scare me.

Probably what she should do

is campaign with her neighbors to change the rules. There might be enough people who agree that it’s okay, especially given the increased concern about global warming.

I have always felt that it’s crazy to be upset by laundry drying on a line. I live in a modest neighborhood and I would line-dry, but I think my dogs would just tear the clothes down.

wren is mightier than grief.

Would that really!

Maybe they feel the clothes create an eyesore, and they are trying to preserve the neighborhood. I think you should sit down and have a heart to heart discussion about this with them…

Jessy is making a vision board

LOL!

They are probably hoity-toity, giant-SUV-driving dogs who would not listen. :)

SimplyStacey They say to be careful what you wish for, but they don't scare me.

hahaha!

Yep, Pumpkin and Ginger even complain about the recycling bin outside the door! Even though it is hidden behind the bushes. They are total snobs.

Jessy is making a vision board

Evian water

in their doggie bowls? Will only pee on the tires of Jaguars and Lexuses?

~ Julie ~ yup....

I saw the same

news story Sunday morning.

I thought she was in the wrong too. She bought into the community with the set rules. She can hang her laundry up in an enclosed area. Just not out in the open. Sigh… some people

LOLOL

Edit – my favorite part of the Sunday morning news on CBS is the last minute when they take you ‘away’.

wren is mightier than grief.

that's my favorite part, too

:)

~ Julie ~ yup....

I liked last weeks

with the rolling hot lava… it reminded me of our Mahinui.

wren is mightier than grief.

I thought of Mahinui too

when I watched the lava. It was beautiful!

mahinui ever more at home

how nice

to be thought of!

Jessy is making a vision board

I agree. Nothing wrong with

line drying, but, as you say, she made an agreement.

Also, why does she have to make such a big fuss that it’s on the news?

In my area of the country, almost all communities have restrictive covenants dealing with house size, building materials, and so on.

In my neighborhood, which consists of one street, our garages can’t face the street, our garbage cans can’t be visible from the street, and we can’t put up a clothesline. And our neigborhood is much less restrictive than another one we looked at, which regulates the COLOR of your SCREENS on windows and porches. Nick refused to even consider that neighborhood.

wren is mightier than grief.

wow, your garbage cans can't be visible from the street?

Where do people keep them?

We have these great big garbage cans that are provided by the county trash removal service. Every house has one. And I could go outside right now and see each one. Some people are lazy and leave their garbage cans out on the street all week, which is very helpful for me when I’m walking Sadie… :)

Jessy is making a vision board

We have the same kind of garbage cans.

I don’t know where other people keep theirs, but mine is at the end of my driveway, right outside the garage. My driveway has a little bend in it, and the end of it is blocked from view by trees, so no one sees it from the street.

mrsrad just is.

I'm with you

on this one.

very interesting, wren

I agree with you that while her eco-consciousness is commendable, if she signed an agreement saying she wouldn’t hang her clothes outside on a line, she should stick to it. Why doesn’t she dry them on a clothes-dryer inside the house? That’s what I do, and I live in a flat the size of a postage stamp – I have to plan my laundry quite carefully to make sure that any visitors don’t get a lovely view of my underwear, ahem ;)

wren is mightier than grief.

I should look into one of these clothes dryers...

is it sort of a hangy thing for your clothing that you use inside? That could be very useful.

flowergirlresumed has a lead role in the Tragi - Comedy that is her life

I can't help

but laugh at this news story, it’s absurd. Yes she did sign an agreement but what kind of place is that to be living in? I wouldn’t do very well there I’m afraid, I always hang my washing out, I do not own a dryer. Thanks for posting this Wren it has given me a good giggle :)

wren is mightier than grief.

I agree with you, flower girl

I don’t think I’d be living in that community in the first place.

Axx

I had a giggle too

My washing has the tendency to stay out on the line for um…. extended periods of time…..don’t own a dryer…... or have a garage to have a line in….... I would get the boot from there really quickly.

flowergirlresumed has a lead role in the Tragi - Comedy that is her life

:D

LOL

flowergirlresumed has a lead role in the Tragi - Comedy that is her life

P.S

I meant the news story has given me a laugh Wren, not your comment, which is well thought out… :)

Perhaps she could suggest

that the community provide a screened drying area for its residents? Carefully located and with some landscaping, there is no need for it to be an eyesore. Providing some helpful and acceptable alternatives might be a better way to introduce change in the world.

wren is mightier than grief.

that's a really good idea

and it would help bring people together instead of driving them apart.

Yes

Discussing plants and shrubs would be very therapeutic!

Where I grew up

NO one had a dryer. Everyone’s laundry was on full display. My mom had to climb outside on a 3rd floor fire escape trellis to hang our clothes. She was always petrified of falling. Of course, back then we only had a wash tub with those rollers to press out the excess water!

I hung up my laundry right up until I had my second child. (I also used cloth diapers) Then I said I wanted a dryer. I’ll do a lot for the environment, but I love my dryer!

wren is mightier than grief.

I suppose you can learn a lot about your neighbors

by being able to see their laundry all the time.

Jessy is making a vision board

I remember those wash tubs with rollers.

My grandmother had one (we lived with her when I was a kid) and of course, she hung clothes on a line. I remember helping her bring in sheets that were frozen solid and would crack when you tried to fold them, as if they were cardboard.

I love my dryer, too. And with at least four loads of laundry per day in my house, I could not do without it.

You just gave me

my 4800th cheer! Thanks!

Jessy is making a vision board

You are welcome!

Have another! :)

Lady Grinning Soul has a snowman in the garden :-)

I love the way you said this

I absolutely agree; if you don’t like the rules, work to change the rules or put yourself in a position where the rules don’t apply. You can’t just break the rules because you don’t like them; that results in anarchy not democracy!
x

wren is mightier than grief.

working to change the rules

would be even better for the environment, too! I got the feeling from the story that this woman was using environmentalism as an excuse to carry out her own mean little passive agressive agenda.

Something to think about

I generally agree about not breaking rules – up to a point. Anyone old enough to remember the civil rights struggles in the ‘60s remembers well that “not breaking rules/laws” was a reason often given for continuing truly unfair practices. Remember Rosa Parks? It was against the law for her to ride in the front of the bus. Only protests changed this law, not reasoned arguments. Sometimes we get so complacent about things we fail to see that things need changing.

wren is mightier than grief.

Yes, up to a point is key.

Myself, I am not a blind follower of rules at all. I look at each one and think it through, the reasoning, the ramifications for not following the rule, etc.

flowergirlresumed has a lead role in the Tragi - Comedy that is her life

Well said

I’ll be back with a cheer when I get some… :)

Josh ...and life just rolls on like a river.

Vermont

Is trying to pass a law banning clothes lines because people feel it’s unsightly… personally, I think clothes lines are a great thing. My mom used to hang most of our clothes on a line when I was growing up. She had a bed of lavender planted blow the line so it had built in scent. :) I just don’t have the time to fool with it, or I would do the same.

wren is mightier than grief.

wow, the entire state

wants to ban clothes lines? That is crazy. Especially in the age of global warming. I hope the people of Vermont stand up refuse to let that happen.


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