wren is mightier than grief.
Mr. Wren & I watched this news story on Sunday, and it really got me thinking. The story is about a woman who line dries her clothing to save energy.
My initial reaction was to be all for the woman who is doing the hippie green thing. But here is the thing. She lives in a planned community, and she signed a contract when she bought her house agreeing to abide by certain standards. One of them was that she wouldn’t line dry her clothes. It surprised me, really, that someone would even think to include such a rider in a contract, but apparently there are a lot of people who feel that clothes lines are a real eyesore.
After living in this community a few years, she became more environmentally conscious, which I do think is a very good thing. At that point, she started line drying her clothes. This upset her neighbors. They don’t like looking at her wash as it dries on the line, and they feel it lowers their property values. She continues to do it despite their protests and has taken to hanging an American flag on her clothesline.
It’s funny. I really want to side with this woman. I agree with being environmentally conscious, I agree with a person’s right to do as they chose, and I disagree with hoity-toity giant SUV-driving people who care more about appearances and their property values than they do about the ozone layer. BUT I can’t get past the fact that this woman is being a really bad neighbor. She freely chose to live in a community with these restrictions, and as shallow as her neighbors may be, they have a right to expect that she abide by the rules.
I finally decided that what I believe is that the right thing for this woman to do is either move to another neighborhood, lobby to change the rules where she lives, or else find other ways to save energy. While she may be saving some energy by line drying her clothes, she is creating a lot conflict and behaving in a very passive aggressive manner.
Anyway, it was kind of strange to realize that this is how I felt. And it made for an interesting conversation with Mr. Wren.
That is all.














