Well, she has been there much longer than I have, and I’m not too sure how ‘experienced’ I am. :D

She just hit a sore spot with her words, and I know I can’t forget the things she said before I’ve talked with our team leader about the incident. But I’m going to do that tomorrow, and hopefully then I can just let go of this. But not yet, as much as I’d want to. Honestly, the whole incident was just so ridiculous and unfair… and infuriating, argh!

My mother said the same thing when I told her about this, and I know it happens everywhere, especially when the dominant sex is female, women are just so… viciously mean. Most of the time I try to do exactly what you suggested, and just ignore the complainers and do my job with a smile on my face. Usually it works, too, but I have bit of a temper and sometimes it just gets out and I get really furious. But you’re absolutely right, the smart way to handle this is to not play along with their bitter games and just keep the positive spirit alive.

Luckily tomorrow is a new day. :)

we’ll see how things go, luckily I’ve been away from work for two weeks now (gotta love holidays) and I haven’t seen this colleague for almost a month now. I’m going back to work this Thursday but I’ll probably see her some time next week – don’t really care, though, I’m just going to ignore her and be myself. :)