I hate this goal…it’s too ideal, and besides…after the year I’ve had, the last thing I really want is the agony of being in love with someone….perhaps I should change it to “meet a great person who is compatible intellectually and sexually who desires a relationship/friendship based on the mutual understanding that there are no strings attached and who means this sincerely and can show me through his/her behavior that they aren’t getting too attached because talk is cheap.”....hmmmmm, I may have to work on re-wording this.