There has been alot of arguing lately, and I feel like it’s my fault. I pick alot of our fights and mostly over nonsense. Like its stuff that shouldnt bother me like it does. I know that he loves me, I should be secure in that. He does the best that he can, always trying to please me although it really is impossible sometime. I need to let go of this need to fight with him. I need to relax and stop being so uptight with him.If something bad happens then I will deal with it when it happens. I spend so much time trying to prevent him messing up that I push him right to the very thing that I don’t want. I done trying to control everything.(Much easier said than done but I am really going to try)