be nice to myself (read all 6 entries…)
Personal improvement 4 months ago

I realized I have a bit of an addiction to self-help books. I’m always searching for ways to make myself ‘better’ (better-looking, a better cook, better at work, a better friend, etc etc). But in doing that, I’m telling myself that right now, I’m not good enough. That there’s something wrong with me that needs to be fixed. I’m tired of that constant striving. I’m fine as I am, dammit.

I won’t go as far as giving up or deleting my goals, but I definitely won’t be working very hard on most of them for a while.



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vex

Wise words

Thanks! :)

Absnasm has high apple-pie in the sky hopes for 2010!

Martha Beck's quote of the day, yesterday.

“Fully occupied by the process of achieving innumerable goals, we lose the ability to determine which goals really matter, and why. Only by connecting with our innate sense of truth can we ensure that the astonishing wealth and power human beings have created will be used for intelligent, benevolent ends.”

vex

I spontaneously burst into song today. I think the plan may be working. :)

Absnasm has high apple-pie in the sky hopes for 2010!

I know, I saw.

That’s a very good sign :-)

pilang79 browsed many english websites and readed 25pages of loadrunner book

Be nice to yourself!

I always think happiness is the most important thing in one’s life. whenever and wherever you are, believe that: relax yourself. Life lives for yourself


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