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Tell my parents i'm bi
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im 12 about to be 13.ive been bi for a year now. I discovered that i was when my friend(girl) and i started hanging out more often just me and her.I started to kiss her and hold her hand and started to hold her closer to me. She told me she liked it and well yeah i had started to fall in love with her.One day i was at her house and she asked me if i thought that she would break my heart if i went out with her and i told her no. and thats when she asked me out-of course i was gonna say yes! now i really want to tell my mom, but i know for a fact that she will want me to tell my dad. They aren’t against bi/gay/lez. but dad is.eeekkk.!!

HELP ME PLZ!!
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Hi, I'm bi too. And my parents dnt kno either.

Well,, Idk wat to tell you because im bi to and im 12 and my parents dnt know either. Umm well r u single? My name iz Audrey. Uhh I would just tell them straight out thats the best thing to do.

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Hmmm…I should but then i get nervous and scared of what they might do. Yeah i pretty much am single right now. ;] and you? nice to meet you :D

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Well coming out to your parents is probably the hardest thing your gonna ever do, but there’s 3 steps
step one: coming out to your self, rather your gay, bi, or lesbian.you have to accept your self for who you are, and regardless
of what people think you really just have to love your self.
step two: never tell them on a holiday like when all the family are together, it may seem
like its a good idea but it is a really bad idea because its when theirs lots of stress like to get
all the family together and stuff and telling them might cause more stress. just do it when its a quiet environment give full
attention to them like turn off your phone and the T.V. you know like fully eye contact
Step three: Chose someone for support. anyone that you could trust to be there with you
and the main key to coming put is to have a very positive energy you cant have any negative
feelings or unsure feelings you know? like saying “I’m gay” in a shaky voice.
just no don’t, you have to really focus like don’t get mad, no get afraid just keep talking
like when you say your gay and they stand up and say “What?” don’t let that bother you if that happens
just ignore it , because if you studder or stop they might sence that weakness on you.
and a really good way to know if your ready to come out to them so your parents can accept if your
gay or bi is to see what kind of communication you have with them now like if you have the kind
of relation ship with them that fights all the time about little things you probably shouldn’t come out because
its just gonna make matters worse. but to me the best age to come out is about 17 or 18 because
that’s about adult hood right there, and that way they might accept you more. Unless you know for a
FACT that your parents are okay with gay people. but i know there will be some people out there
that will say very rude things, pretty messed up comments , but you know if we hate on them
wish death upon them, we really aint no better then them. were just like them.
But you know theirs lots of straight people out there that support gays too. you see
this cycle is never gonna end, but its gonna end when someone finally stands up and just accepts everyone.
and i wish you luck that everything goes well

i would like some opinions please.

i am bi i have like both sexes for as long as i can remember. i started dating girl(...) in seventh grade. i am going to be 18 in december. i want to tell my family but i don’t know how they will act. i dont want to be looked down on while i still live there.

if any one has advice please let me know.

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