Way it turned out I am really chuckling – how I wanted s/o totally different – a spiritual woman who offers family-constellation and stuff; and how I wanted anything but analysis.

And now I’m on the couch, with a male at my back.
Though it’s not what I thought an analysis would be.
Mostly it’s me doing the blah, which is typical, as far as I know; but he is sometimes interrupting me, giving practical advice, which to me seems unlike typical analysis.

And family is not a subject at all. In the beginning he told me to distance myself and not interfere, and that was that.
He doesn’t really want to hear about problems with me Mum and Bro, he wants to hear how I earn enough money to be totally independent from me Mum (she owns my flat).
And he is friggin right, of course.

AND it is working. I am distancing myself, and it is working perfectly fine.

And as for the spiritual stuff, well, I am carefully introducing him to that. (insert madly grinning smilie)

Erm. Sorry for that long blah. I felt the need to sing type me Doc’s praise. The transference, y’know. <|8)