What is real is what happens to you every day…..for good or bad….your routine…..job….interactions with the public….the way you intertwine with them….interpersonal relationships….But many of us want more….so much more.....but don’t know how to really find it….so...what I have done this year….is decide a change was needed….that’s a big step….hard….and then proceed slowly….true to your hopes and beliefs….and do the things you like…but be open to possibilities….and if you are lucky, maybe something you never expected will appear before you…and unfold slowly….beautifully…..right before your eyes…..like a time lapse film of a rare orchid blooming…....and the wonder of it will make you believe…....in reality…....