I live in the modern, developed world, where, after I pedal home from work, my husband broils a tenderloin steak, asparagas is flown in in the fall from south america, & potatoes take 15 minutes in the microwave; where hot water is freely available and I can shower as long as I’d like, & then there’s a nice clean fluffy pink towel to dry off my body & another towel just for hair; and then I can put on a clean nightie & know that I’ll sleep securely in a comfy warm bed.