There is nothing wrong with refining a goal. In fact, the ability to adjust and refine what we want is a strength.

Back in the day I really wanted a Mustang. I was obsessed with restoring a classic pony car to it’s original state. I read all about them, and went to car shows for research.

However, my experiences combined with a constantly evolving world view have made this dream obsolete. /Don’t get me wrong, I still dig old Mustangs, It just no longer feel a need to have one.

(lots of people love these cars, and they always get restored)

I see goal refinement as a positive, and a sign of maturity. It also shows you now appreciate your former car (Creampuff) more than you did.

.....and you can still admire cute BMWs.