This is such a hard one to do.
I have just finished with my bf because of my trust issues and it has broken my heart. I wanted to trust him, but things didnt add up. I wanted to work on it but he thought it was too far gone, which I guess was right.
I have been so scared of letting someone into my heart again, and when I do it all ends badly. I’m worried that I made it go wrong because of my issues. It definitely didnt help things, but I guess I woulda suspected it at some point.
I just wana find that person that doesnt make me feel this way. He obviously wasnt the right one but its just made me more scared of letting anyone else in again.
Do people have to earn your trust? Or should you trust everyone unless proven otherwise? If you doubt trusting someone then are you just making it come true?