Tomorrow, I’ll have paperwork, and tomorrow I’ll explain to the mother-of-my-children that she needs and attorney or an arbitration expert and she has 30 days to file an appearance or be served the paper work by the County Sheriff’s Deputy.

and he asked, “Is there any chance you and Mom are getting back together?”

I said, “No.”

He said, “not even 10 percent chance?”

I said, “no. We have not liked each other for a very long time.”

He said, “not 5 percent?” (no) “not 1 perent?” (no)

I said, “we have not liked each other for a very long time.”

Then he asked how Thanksgiving and Christmas will work.

I said, “Well, it could be like your Grandfather and Grandmother… Xmas eve with one, Xmas day with the other.”

I suggested two thanksgivings, on at my apartment, one at their mother’s house.

He said, “you should come to thankgiving at our house.”

He’s sweet. He’s “bargaining” to make the pain go away. But no, I don’t think that is a good idea. I don’t want to give him any indication of false hope.