what we did is found a magical forest or somwhere and when it was dark we got a torch and went out we stood in the middle of the forest place (druid circle) and lit a beeswax candle and said: please help us in make our wishes we really dont want to be selfih we will use them for good only” it was worth it but it only worked for a day and you cant be to selfish with your wishes trust us bad might happen!!