destoute removing all the goals involving to much thinking and psychology

accept myself
I need to stop fighting myself 2 months ago

I need to stop fighting myself. Stop reading so much and just live. Just live life for today. I can’t be stressing myself so much. My self-esteem needs to be growing though, or this another way of not accepting myself?



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KCBlixen There. I said it.

Self Esteem is hard isn't it?

Getting out of your own way is a real challenge isn’t it? We can think ourselves into a brilliant plan and then think ourselves right out of it the second we are about to take that first step because we just cannot get out of our own way.

I wish there was a 1,2,3 step plan out there…something that someone who has independent thought could feel comfortable doing…yet somehow it would still fit into how the rest of the world seems to wax and wane.

What I can tell you is this. No matter how awkward “it” feels…whatever “it” is that you are trying to do to make peace with yourself…just do it for you. It has to be for you, and not for others to judge how you decide what is acceptable.

Coming from me, it might be calling the kettle black since I am totally still on square one…but I’m out there trying right there with you. So good luck!! Your not alone.

destoute removing all the goals involving to much thinking and psychology

Getting there bit by bit, step by step

Hi and thx. You are a great seer of things. Great thx for making me feel and see someone else is out there with the same struggle and same intelligence as me (if id have to guess).

I now have the plan to become a writer. I think I have got enough to write about. Traveling and writing and painting sounds good to me.

Your third paragraph really strikes me as coming from someone who is well on his way.

Also self-accepting is where it all starts with. Its the base of freedom and independence. So since we are meeting here, you must be well on your way.

I have been sitting on the edge to do something with my life a couple of times now. I know something good will come up. Writing might just be it!

I’ll keep track of you!

Good luck from the Netherlands.


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