My wife says she lots of hate and it has been building. I have not been perfect and it is really killing me that it has taken her being pissed at me to the point of separation. We went to a therapist and I was told I need to give her space and not smother her. She has gone out without me now over the new years holiday twice. I get it she needs her space but I feel she is being really mean and trying to move on. How do really show her I want to change my ways of stress which leads to my anger?