but is a fleeting state in a relationship… You help them, you meet their needs and then they are no longer needy. Then you are not needed, I have been down this road… its not always as good as it seems.

My advice, seek being wanted for you and because of who you are… You appear to be a lovely young woman, caring, and warm… Its worth being loved and cared about just for those reasons alone. You’ll be happier for longer that way.