wellonheels is holding steady at average.
When I’m home and about to sit down, I find myself always thinking, “What’s he going to complain about if I sit down—what’s not done?”. I know he expects me to be just like him, and I’m not, nor would I ever want to be. He just expects everyone to be like him, especially me.
I have to just live my life – do the things I have to do and then when I want to do something just do it, no matter the reaction, and not allow him to upset me.
I don’t have to explain myself to him. I’m an adult, capable of making my own choices in life, and if I make choices he considers “wrong”, that’s my option. And that’s what I have to tell myself. And him.